Such is life

a fationable watch and a full-length T-shirt,these are the gifts for the chinese

valentine's day to my girl friend.they are all cheap but i think they are very

useable.when i came home from suzhou i told her that some gifts were prepare for her.

she was very exciting and wanted to see them quickly.while we were going upstair,she told me that she had also

brought a watch in shanghai.i suprised and said that i had also brought a watch for you.she let me see her watch

first and then i gave her my watch.when the watch was in her eye,she expressed very exciting.she liked it and i was

very happy then.neviouse is over now,maybe such is life,doing is better than nothing.

印度有一个师傅对于徒弟不停地抱怨这抱怨那感到非常厌烦，于是有一天早上派徒弟去取一些盐回来。 


当徒弟很不情愿地把盐取回来后，师傅让徒弟把盐倒进水杯里喝下去，然后问他味道如何。 


徒弟吐了出来，说：“很苦。” 


师傅笑着让徒弟带着一些盐和自己一起去湖边。 


他们一路上没有说话。 


来到湖边后，师傅让徒弟把盐撒进湖水里，然后对徒弟说：“现在你喝点湖水。” 


徒弟喝了口湖水。师傅问：“有什么味道？” 


徒弟回答：“很清凉。” 


师傅问：“尝到咸味了吗？” 


徒弟说：“没有。” 


然后，师傅坐在这个总爱怨天尤人的徒弟身边，握着他的手说：“人生的苦痛如同这些盐有一定数量，既不会多也不会少。我们承受痛苦的容积的大小决定痛苦的程度。所以当你感到痛苦的时候，就把你的承受的容积放大些，不是一杯水，而是一个湖。”